tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-183066576750752671.post2710677036987169139..comments2023-06-20T10:07:00.387+01:00Comments on THERE ARE A MILLION STORIES IN THE NAKED CITY...CONTINUUM.: Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-183066576750752671.post-71281990444701110792007-06-21T12:59:00.000+01:002007-06-21T12:59:00.000+01:00being real with each other is not a failure! These...being real with each other is not a failure! These milestone days like birthdays, chrismas etc are very difficult, i'm so glad you and the girls can be there for each other and get through them together!Suzi-khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00338300048993883066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-183066576750752671.post-18310610153885769972007-06-19T22:41:00.000+01:002007-06-19T22:41:00.000+01:00No harm in expressing your feeligs - as others hav...No harm in expressing your feeligs - as others have so eloquently said, there is no way you are failing by sharing grief together.Mauigirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15529827915262851910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-183066576750752671.post-17723330123404429912007-06-18T23:16:00.000+01:002007-06-18T23:16:00.000+01:00I was once told it is the 'falling apart' that hol...I was once told it is the 'falling apart' that holds us together, didnt understand what the person meant until much later....You didnt fail anyone Ruth, you saw a very difficult painfilled day through together..<BR/><BR/>Thinking of you all xxAudreyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14719984917185676736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-183066576750752671.post-70745440458836384182007-06-18T22:00:00.000+01:002007-06-18T22:00:00.000+01:00You've never failed any of your family Ruth. All ...You've never failed any of your family Ruth. All you did yesterday was allow them to share the grief you are feeling. Your grief is their grief & between you you will survive with the memories of love x xShazhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04695259713408937675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-183066576750752671.post-7409327563245388142007-06-18T20:53:00.000+01:002007-06-18T20:53:00.000+01:00Thanks all...feel a bit better now...I'm just so u...Thanks all...feel a bit better now...I'm just so used to "coping" it's throwing me a bit all this "going to pieces". <BR/>Have appreciated all the cyberhugs<BR/>RxRUTHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11389012059140660415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-183066576750752671.post-30137997480888548502007-06-18T20:25:00.000+01:002007-06-18T20:25:00.000+01:00Ruth how the bloody hell did you fail?Honestly!I d...Ruth how the bloody hell did you fail?<BR/><BR/>Honestly!<BR/><BR/>I don't know whether to hug you or slap you!<BR/><BR/>Come on, seriously now there's no point guilt tripping. We all could have done different things a little better or differently I know that but how have you let anyone down? Come on Ruth!!<BR/><BR/>I'm sending a hug & I'll even do that asterisks thing<BR/><BR/>here you are:-<BR/><BR/>***hugs***<BR/>!!<BR/><BR/>Gled<BR/>xxGledwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09308172310486574510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-183066576750752671.post-23294951564922820982007-06-18T20:23:00.000+01:002007-06-18T20:23:00.000+01:00Oh dear Ruth, how weird it would be if you didn't...Oh dear Ruth, how weird it would be if you didn't miss him and you didn't cry. <BR/>xoGillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08845512494417503198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-183066576750752671.post-39297961663330418522007-06-18T19:49:00.000+01:002007-06-18T19:49:00.000+01:00Failed...! Never, you are a human being and a sens...Failed...! Never, you are a human being and a sensitive one, you would not have done what you did for the last two years otherwise.<BR/>Those are healing tears Ruth, don't fight them..<BR/>Hugs<BR/>xxSheilahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06731396546695910306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-183066576750752671.post-30308851770160141752007-06-18T16:14:00.000+01:002007-06-18T16:14:00.000+01:00You don't always have to be "the Strong one". You...You don't always have to be "the Strong one". You are all grieving equally, so you all have the right to show it equally especially on a special day like yesterday.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-183066576750752671.post-23408295319758101562007-06-18T11:56:00.000+01:002007-06-18T11:56:00.000+01:00I am sorry you had to go through this so soon afte...I am sorry you had to go through this so soon after losing Mick.<BR/>That grief is a bitch and i know in the future the girls are not going to get over losing Mick but hopefully it wont hurt as much on days like this. I don't think you could ever fail them.<BR/><BR/>Thinking of you as always.Clairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02289711208740908594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-183066576750752671.post-26197996073694145332007-06-18T10:46:00.000+01:002007-06-18T10:46:00.000+01:00Ruth, it hurts when you lose someone you love, it'...Ruth, it hurts when you lose someone you love, it's natural to cry and have an unbearable pain in your heart. It will take time but it will ease, when the time is right. ((hugs))Akelamaluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11234268568845148285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-183066576750752671.post-33995688156343609242007-06-18T10:09:00.000+01:002007-06-18T10:09:00.000+01:00Ruth, you could NEVER fail as a mum,or as anything...Ruth, you could NEVER fail as a mum,or as anything. I know that. HUGS xxxxCGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13773161375865716360noreply@blogger.com